Three must haves in a high quality wife

qualities in a high quality wife

Most men do a poor job at communicating with other men what qualities to look for for a high quality wife. Women, sure. They’ll compare notes. But men? No.

Men are really poor at helping out other men. Frankly, we suck at it.

We really suck when it comes to helping men avoid problem women. Sure, we’ll talk about the psycho bitch to avoid. But anything short of psycho bitch? Men actually get mad when you tell them they could do better.

So, being a stranger to you, you know what? You could probably do better. Unless these women have these certain qualities.

What makes a high quality wife?

She’s good looking

Well, duh. Anyone could have told you that.

But what makes a woman good looking? Half of it is luck. The other half is maintenance.

Any idiot could tell you about the luck half. Not everyone will tell you to check her maintenance routine.

First off, does she care? If she’s a feminist, forget it. She’ll get ugly then try to give you a lecture and/or a guilt trip about being a toxic masculine asshole when you tell her she should at least do something about her weight.

Second, is she lazy? If she’s lazy, forget it. She’ll get fat.

Third, does she get depressed? You know what? Cry me a fucking river. I’ve heard every excuse in the book about depression. Depression is fixable; it’s just most depressed people would rather play the victim game than fix themselves.

If she’s any of those three, she won’t be good looking for long. I can guarantee that. And considering marriage is supposed to be for a lifetime, you might want to think long and hard about committing to that.

Does she argue over stupid shit?

Life has enough bullshit as is. You don’t need to go to work and put up with bullshit. Then get stuck in traffic for an hour and a half. Then come home to more bullshit.

Your home is supposed to be a sanctuary. The Thais get this. Their homes are sanctuaries. The man may be the head of the family, but the woman rules the home. And part of her job is to make the home a sanctuary. When you get home, your head can rest before you go out for another day of bullshit.

So you can go out and get a Thai wife. Or you can find yourself a good-looking woman right over here who understands this.

Arguing is a waste of time. My wife and I rarely argue. And if we ever disagree on something, we either agree to disagree or we resolve it so it works for both of us. We both know that arguing is a waste of time and accomplishes nothing. We don’t like to waste time. And we hate accomplishing nothing. So we don’t waste time arguing. It’s that simple.

Does she bring out the best in you?

You’re supposed to grow. You’re supposed to get better every year. When you stop getting better, you stop growing and you actually start dying.

That’s the cycle of life. You’re either growing. Or you’re dying.

A good wife brings out the best in you. She inspires you to do awesome stuff. Not sit around and watch TV and play video games. Productive things.

I don’t know you. You tell me what productive things are. And don’t lie either. You’re not just lying to me, you’re lying to yourself, and that’s unforgivable.

You know in your heart what I mean when I say productive things.

A good wife does that for you.

So qualities in a high quality wife – she cares enough to look her best. She doesn’t argue. And she inspires you to be the best man you could possibly be. That’s what a high quality wife could do for you. Don’t settle for less.

About the featured image

I shot this in Venice back in May. Speaking of a high quality wife, my wife wanted to see people play Vivaldi’s Four Seasons in period costumes.

High quality women are cultured. My wife likes the ballet and she reads books. And traveling the world is actually her idea.


Roman is an artist, composer, writer, and travel junkie.

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