On female friends

The past few days, there’s been talk around the red pill community about female friends. Specifically that they’re a bad idea. And this, my friends, is why I’m not part of any political party, or even group.

I’ve had red pill concepts almost as long as some of these guys have been alive. I just haven’t been using the internet the way I should have been using it. I’ve been using it for work, and I sincerely thank the red pill community for teaching me that I could make money on my own with it. I am thankful for that.

However, no female friends? Are you kidding me?

I’m an extrovert. Half the population is female. Yes, I’m married. But I have this thing called “self-control.” I know, weird concept nowadays.

I have a confession to make

That said, I do have a confession to make. I’m having currently an affair. My wife knows about it. I spend all my time thinking about my mistress.

In fact, I spend just as much time thinking about my mistress as I do my wife. Hell, I probably spend almost as much on her as I spend on my wife too.

My mistress is music. It has been since my late teens and it will never change. I love music more than betas love their TV shows. I simply don’t have time for another woman, nor do I have the emotional stamina.

So half my friends are female. I’ve even seen some of them naked. For the record, the only women who have seen me naked since I’ve been married have been my doctor and my masseuses. (I have chronic pain from past injuries so you can bet your ass I see a masseuse every chance I get).

Rules are stupid

I think rules are absurd. Period. That’s why I’m not religious – too many fucking rules. And no female friends is just another fucking rule for me not to follow. Besides, some females are fascinating.

In fact, just yesterday, I was talking to a woman whose net worth is in the tens of millions. Fascinating how she got it. She’s an acquaintance, not a friend (people nowadays overuse the term friend).

Anyways, we discussed how she got it. She had a wonderful mentor. I confessed that I wish I had a mentor as I wouldn’t have made so many stupid mistakes.

But tens of millions? Holy shit! She’s where I want to be at. And yes, she’s telling the truth because I can generally read body language unless they’re a sociopath. And no, she’s not a sociopath.


I’m an artist. In this community, you not only want friends. You need friends if you’re going to make it. Half of the art community is female. Get rid of half your potential work allies, and you’re shooting yourself in the foot.

I have no idea where this idea came from about no female friends. I have to expose it though as something that’s absolutely absurd.

When I was single

I’ve been with the same woman forever. I love her to death and still do to this day. In fact, it’s probably even stronger now than in the early days when all we did was fuck. Not like we don’t anymore. I’m just saying in the beginning, that’s all we did.

But let’s go back. When I was single, I always had plenty of platonic female friends. With a lot of them, we fooled around when we were both striking out. Why? Because it feels good. Just keep away from coitus and everything’s fine.

Yet another reason I’m not religious. I don’t need someone else telling me that that’s bad. You’re horny, I’m horny, let’s blow off some steam. Then afterwards, help me with my book report. You found sentences that don’t make sense? Awesome! Thanks for fixing them.

Here, give me your math. What the hell? You’re totally not getting these concepts. Here, let me explain.

Female friends also got me laid. Me and Suzie would be cute together? I think so too. I’ve been wanting to fuck her for days. Set me up!

Be honest from the start with women and they’ll respect you. Have ulterior motives from the beginning and they’ll fucking despise you. As they should. I don’t respect people with ulterior motives either.

Neither should you. That’s a beta thing, and if you have them, get rid of them. Be honest. Be straightforward.

Just to be clear

Just to be clear, I still love and appreciate the red pill community. From the outside, I find it fascinating. We have a lot of the same concepts, like the whole alpha/beta thing, being self-sufficient, self-improvement, financial responsibility, the studying of weightlifting, MMA and firearms, and love for country. All that stuff, I fucking love!

But here’s the curse of the free-thinker – you’ll never, ever find anyone who thinks exactly the way you do. You’ll meet someone and the two of you will be like “wow! This person is the shit!,” then they keep talking until one sentence, you’re like “wow! I couldn’t disagree more!”

Well, we found it. They’ll get rid of my platonic female friends when they pry them from my cold, dead hands.

Anyways, if you haven’t yet, check out our new single Darvulia.

You can listen to the song on Spotify and if you like it, support the band by buying it from Google Play.


Roman is an artist, composer, writer, and travel junkie.

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